Letters

A library of letters, sorted by the moment you're in.

Not by topic. By scene. The night you found out. The day you signed the lease alone. The first holiday. Pick the one that sounds like where you are right now.

Anniversary letters

Want a letter on your hard date every year?

Tell me your filing date or your divorce date. I'll write to you on it.

Before you've left

May 2026 · 7 min read

A letter to the version of me who hasn't left her marriage yet

It doesn't have to get worse for you to have a reason to leave. You already have reason enough.

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The night you found out

The first 48 hours, when nothing has words yet.

I haven't written this one yet.

The week you filed

May 2026 · 8 min read

What I'd tell my 25-year-old self the week she filed

A letter to the girl in the courthouse parking lot, with the engine off and the AC running.

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The day you signed the lease alone

First apartment, first key, first quiet.

I haven't written this one yet.

The first holiday

His side of the family, the empty seat, the questions.

I haven't written this one yet.

The first time you laughed and felt guilty about it

When relief shows up before you're ready for it.

I haven't written this one yet.

The one-year mark

A Wednesday in October, a kitchen that's entirely yours.

I haven't written this one yet.