Letters

A library of letters, sorted by the moment you're in.

Not by topic. By scene. The night you found out. The day you signed the lease alone. The first holiday. Pick the one that sounds like where you are right now.

Browsing all 7 letters.

Anniversary letters

Want a letter on your hard date every year?

Tell me your wedding anniversary or your divorce date. I'll write to you on it.

Before you've left

May 2026 · 7 min read

A letter to the version of me who hasn't left her marriage yet

It doesn't have to get worse for you to have a reason to leave. You already have reason enough.

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Feeling unlovable

May 2026 · 5 min read

A letter to the version of me who feels unlovable after divorce

The end of your marriage is not a verdict on whether you're worth loving. You are still so loved.

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First wedding anniversary

June 2026 · 7 min read

A letter to the version of me on the first wedding anniversary since divorce

The day the calendar remembers. Cry it out, make a plan, and trust that one year from now it won't hurt the same.

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When you feel behind

May 2026 · 6 min read

A letter to the version of me who feels behind after divorce

You're not behind. You're rebuilding. Those are not the same thing.

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Scared to be alone

May 2026 · 5 min read

A letter to the version of me who was scared to be alone after divorce

If the thought of being on your own is the thing keeping you stuck, read this. Being alone stops feeling like punishment, I promise.

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Carrying the trauma

July 2026 · 6 min read

A letter to the trauma that keeps me stuck

It felt like I survived a plane crash. Most of the damage happened on the inside, and I was still supposed to keep going.

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When you forget why you left

July 2026 · 6 min read

A letter for when you forget why you left

There will come a time when the loss feels heavier than the freedom. This is your reminder to stop and remember why you left.

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